Even if you haven’t read Eat, Pray, Love you have no doubt heard about it. Elizabeth Gilbert’s memoir released in 2006 was a global phenomenon, selling an incredible 13 million copies (or thereabouts) to date. Continuing with her writing after that kind of success was always going to be hard and Liz openly admits she struggled. Badly. In a TED talk called “Success, failure and the drive to keep creating” Liz spoke honestly about her battle with writer’s block and the talk is an inspiration to anyone who has ever struggled with their craft. Liz has in fact given two great TED talks, the first was on “Your elusive creative genius”, and together they have been watched over 11.5 million times. Woah!
So when I heard the well-known author and inspiring orator was coming to Sydney I jumped at the chance to see her. Standing on stage yesterday at the Sydney Opera House, as part of the All About Women festival, Liz started her talk with a disclaimer. I apologise, she said, to be speaking to you bare foot today (she’d had a fight with a couch) and warn you that my talk will be littered with profanities. But if there is anywhere, she said, in the world where she thinks she might be able to get away with that, this would be it!
And so she began.
Liz is an incredible speaker – witty, anecdotal, punchy – so forgive me for summarising now what was an incredible talk. However, I wanted to share some of her points on creativity that I think will resonate with bloggers and writers.
Liz cites a poet named Jack Gilbert as one of her creative inspirations and this was a question he posed a promising student.
Liz touched on the reasons why women in particular may be afraid to release their creative work:
Fear that we’re not good enough
That everyone is better/has already done it
Not having the right workspace, money, time, education
Afraid of criticism, afraid of rejection, afraid of what our family will think, afraid of success
Fear that we’re too fat
Fear we’ll be ignored. Fear of being a one hit wonder, fear of being a none hit wonder.
Fear is terribly boring, Liz says, because it’s the same thing everyday. But we need to learn how to live with fear. A life without fear would be a short and dangerous one. We need to accept that fear will always be related to creativity and need to learn to live with that. To address it, accept it, and accommodate it. Let fear have its voice but don’t give it a vote.
We need to be comfortable with entitlement. The “arrogance of belonging” is necessary for a creative life. We are entitled to express and exhibit our work.
We belong to a species of artists. (Man was making decorative arts before inventing agriculture!) You don’t permission, there’s an inherited right in us all to create.
If you want to live a creative life you need to take on your own perfectionism. The ideal artist is a devoted half-ass. “Done is better than good.”
“A good enough novel written this year is better than a perfect novel written never.”
Give a creative mind something to do. Take a vacation from yourself.
Your work is not your baby, don’t make it more precious than it needs to be. You need to be able to release it, not protect it. Let your work nurture you.
Please don’t try and help people with your work – it makes it awkward for them. Do what you love and eventually it turns to help.
Quick Fire Questions
The audience had a chance to ask Liz some personal questions and these were my favourite sound bites.
Is social media good or bad for humans? It is humans, it’s just us.
On Oprah – “She smokes what she’s selling.”
On taking your work too seriously – “It’s like having sex with someone who respects you too much. Spank your work instead!”
“I write sequentially or else the story makes you its bitch!”
Does any of this advice resonate with you as a blogger?